leaving the message

Having left the message in 2013, this is a look back in hindsight of the things I’ve learned with the blessing of time and distance.  These are personal thoughts and opinions from my experience. ...

The following article is part of my “Barriers of Exit” series. These barriers are cognitive hurdles that make it extremely hard to question or leave the Message. For a questioning individual, they may have...

I’ve spent a long time on Morning Mercy through the years. It’s hard to explain how much was invested in this online space. Most the effort will never be visible on the pages or...

Since leaving the message, one thing I have occasionally done is to listen to archived sermons from various churches and ministries. I don’t do it to load up on criticism or document my greivances....

What is a System: “An organized, purposeful structure that consists of interrelated and interdependent elements (components, entities, factors, members, parts etc.). These elements continually influence one another (directly or indirectly) to maintain their activity...

One of the arguments I faced countless times while leaving the message was the issue of living a “clean life”. As per the experience of many, they testify to the transformation they experienced as they...

In my journey through the Message, one thing I was continually bothered by was the swift leap to labels.  It’s not that this problem doesn’t exist elsewhere; let’s be honest, it’s a widespread part...

The journey away from the message is intensely messy. It’s unavoidable, and there are many reasons for the emotional mess it makes – all of which are worth learning about. Why is it worth learning...

(This article is intended for a wife who has questioned / doubted / disbelieved the Message – while her husband continues to believe) For the last few years, perhaps the most frequent message I’ve...

I always hesitate to use the word “cult” because I know how hurtful & strong it is. I know I always felt very offended and misunderstood when someone (who knew nothing about my experience)...

Despite the fact that I disagree with William Branham’s message, I respect the freedoms for their churches to practice their faith. But challenging information needs to be public.

A "One True Church" is a religious group that, through it's blend of teachings, impresses upon it's members that their group is THE ONLY path to truth.

Indoctrination could be described as the process of imparting, not teaching.

People expect that you should have immediate answers for why you are leaving and, ultimately, where you are going. Should you have an answer - or is it okay to not know?